when to stop

when do you start to see things differently? How do you admit that you fucked up? Starting to look at the bigger picture is good, you dont see things from your side but from others also.. Anyway i just wana say, it is time for me to change.. For the better, if you know that way always pull you down then stop it.. But why keep tryin it, i guess there was a hope thinking it wud work but there is a limit rite.. So there stop hoping for that way.. Grow up now and things will change for the better..